I like to breath if youre on top. That doesn't mean I neglect the important things, but once I've done all I can do, I just don't see the sense in continuing to fret about something I longer have control over.
Suck and lick my nipples until they stand at full attention and if he can hit that nipple finger then suck my clit combo, we will be a match made in heaven. You know it would be nice if you were comfortable with bi play but not required, and swinging or poly is a big plus.